Wednesday, March 31, 2021

Si Se Puede!

That’s what Cesar Chavez would have said. Today’s his day. It’s a good mantra to follow. What shall be the picture today?

Tada!!! Anyhow, thanks for trying and being relatively successful today implementing “The Plan”. Sorry you didn’t want me to drive you to work or kiss me. We’ll just have to pray when you get home. Drive safe. TTQD!!

Tuesday, March 30, 2021

Overbuild and Oversupport

Works on structures and works on relationships. I had an idea of what I wanted to write about today, but then I forgot. Sorry. 

Anyhow. Here’s Mr. Crab. He had a good time, but nit too many pictures in Reno. Thanks for the tacos. Man, I had a really good idea too for what I wanted to write. Alright, time to pray. TTQD!!


Monday, March 29, 2021

Mondays. The Scourge of the Work Week ☹️

With the exception on holidays, not much good can be said about Mondays...but today was the end of a nice mini vacation. A semblance of normalcy in an otherwise changed world. So today was an exception.
I hate the formatting sometimes on this platform...


Anyhow. I hope Em had a nice break. I’m sorry it wasn’t as cool as Las Vegas. To be honest, there’s less hotels/casinos, but Tahoe is probably nicer. I’m glad you enjoyed brunch and got to see your coworkers 😀. TLG !!


Sunday, March 28, 2021

The Biggest Little City

Mini vacation. Hope you’re having a good time. It’s not Vegas, but it’s also not Sacramento. Can’t believe you’ve never been here before. You didn’t miss much 😬


I was a winner before I got here because I got Em. And now Em is a winner because you won $4. 😂 TTQD!!

Saturday, March 27, 2021

Just Like Old Times

Sometimes things change and that’s good. Sometimes things stay the same and that’s good too. 

It was nice to see the Garcias. I feel bad we didn’t see them more during the last year. Hopefully we’ll be able to see them more often. Hope you had fun Em. ATEN.I regret eating the garlic 🤢

Friday, March 26, 2021

Second to Last

Today is the second to last Friday of Lent. I guess you could call it the almost Good Fri-yah. 

Things have changed quite a bit. Can’t remember the last time we ate inside a restaurant. Do you remember this meal? Lots going on these days, but things are moving forward whether we want them to or not. I’m curious how future us will remember this time. 🤔 TTQD!!

Thursday, March 25, 2021

Passover Eve Eve

I don’t think Catholics celebrate Passover anymore. But it still exists and it signals the nearing of Easter and the resurrection (you know which one). Jesus’ death and resurrection can often be used as an analogy for spiritual “death and rebirth”.


This is a picture of a parade (not sure that’s the right word) I watched when I was in Guatemala right before I met you. Back then my life felt a little empty. These days it’s overflowing. Thanks. ATEN!

Wednesday, March 24, 2021

Mr. Crab 🦀

Mr. Crab doesn’t get out much anymore. But times are different these days. Fortunately, he has some adventures ahead of him in the near future:

There are also less pills now too, but there’s still some pills. Don’t forget to pack Mr. Crab. Or he’ll be Mr. Sad Crab ☹️. TLG!!

Tuesday, March 23, 2021

Tuesdays....

Man, not much I can say about Tuesdays usually. Today is no different. Still got an itch in my back, just burnt the roof of my mouth, and I still need to get moving on the wedding invites. But there’s a lot to look forward to...


Because Em likes seeing Anh sad, here you go. But like I said. There’s a lot to look forward to as well. Em is something I look forward to. Just watched a video on money mule refund scam. Sad. Anyhow I love you. Thanks for being something to look forward to. TTQD!

Monday, March 22, 2021

Mechanic Mondays 😥

Looks like it’s time for scheduled maintenance on the Honda Accord. I know Em is getting a Honda Civic, but I’m gonna stay away from Hondas for a while, at least older or v6 ones. Good thing your civic is likely a 4 cylinder and newer. Anyhow, I digress.

What I’m reminded of today is how insignificant my problems seem in light of other peoples’ issues. It’s not to say that my problems are not serious or important to me, rather to remind me that most things in life are things that we shouldn’t stress about. Going back to my idea of life in 4 squares. Thanks for choosing me. I really want you to be happiest. I hope I’ll always be that source for you. ATEN!!

Sunday, March 21, 2021

Happy Sunday Em!

Since you were disappointed I didn’t use this picture yesterday here you go:

Also don’t worry, I didn’t put anything in your coffee (or did I bwhahaha). Today’s posting is being create a little early. I hope you had a good day at work. I hope we were successful at my parents. I hope we have a good dinner. I also hope we don’t fight. I’ll make sure I bite my tongue when you say or do something crazy 😜. Anyhow, Anh thuong Em nhieuest of the nhatest. TLG!! I swore the chicken looked bigger when we were frying it, but it was soooo small when eating 😂.

Saturday, March 20, 2021

What A Difference A Year Makes...

I didn’t know what to post about today, but google reminded me of a picture from 1 year ago:

Why were we so happy on this day in 2020? Is this because we didn’t know what was gonna happen? Ignorance is bliss they say. Today we’re praying for your neighbor. Truly what a difference a year makes. Lub yooo!!!

Friday, March 19, 2021

Thank Goodness It’s Fri-Yeah!!!

Don’t want to jinx it, but it’s been a good Friday and the real Good Friday isn’t for a week weeks. Got lots done today. Checking things off the list. There’s just something satisfying about not having to worry about something...


You know what I almost never have to worry about? Em thuonging Anh. I do worry sometimes, but not often. Thanks for that Em. It was also nice today that I got to treat Em out to dessert. I know Em is very keo, so it’s nice that you let yourself enjoy every now and then. You know what Em NEVER has to worry about? Anh thuonging Em nhieu nhat. TTQD!!!

Thursday, March 18, 2021

Thursday, But It Feels Like Friday ☹️

I hope you enjoyed your day off today. I know you felt relieved after seeing decorator. I hope my flight stuff didn’t cause you too much trouble. Thanks for your patience. Haven’t had a life lesson in a while:

Cooking pho is an analogy for life. It’s not always what you put in, but better ingredients probably help. It’s about the effort and care you put in preparing the dish. I’m glad you enjoyed the pho today. I enjoyed hanging out with you and getting things done. Just know, your efforts will garner results. Not always what you may expect, but results nonetheless. TTQD!!!

Wednesday, March 17, 2021

Luck of the Irish ☘️

It may be St. Patrick’s Day today, but I feel lucky every day. I got me an Uyen Do. She’s one of a kind. I know we don’t see eye to eye on a lot of things, but I think we do on the important things. 

I also want you to know that I appreciate all that you do. I may not always like the results, but I appreciate that you mean well and you try. If you ever feel I don't appreciate or love you, please let me know so I can tell you you're wrong. ATEN!!

Tuesday, March 16, 2021

Back To The Tuesday

The day after the day after daylight savings has a sense of normalcy to it. Didn’t wake up too tired. Saw some old friends. Saw my parents. Ate some good food:

I’m sorry I’m not the best photographer, but the food was delicious. Thanks for making the food and making it the right way (not sacrificing health for taste). Sometimes it’s okay. Balance is the key to success. TTQD!!

Monday, March 15, 2021

Money, Money, Money, MONEY!!!

They say that money can’t buy happiness or that money can’t by health or that money can’t buy time. I don’t think it’s that money can’t buy these things, it’s probably that money can’t buy enough of these things or that the buyer doesn’t have enough money or they’re probably using it wrong 😂 I’m not saying poor people can’t be happy and healthy and I’m not saying rich people can’t unhappy and unhealthy. I’m saying having more money is usually better than having less. Actually I can’t buy think of anytime it’s not better. So what’s the point of this long rant?

Let me first start by saying I love Em nhieuest of the nhat. And in no way does the money make me love you more or less. What the money does show and that I’ve always know is how much Em thuongs Anh. I joke about it all the time, but I know you love me. But to my previous paragraph, having this extra money doesn’t make my life worse, it makes it better. If it ends up making it worse it’s probably cause I spent it wrong. Anyhow. Thanks for the money. We can use it to ship your car 😂. TTQD!!!

Sunday, March 14, 2021

Sunday After Yesterday

Look at Em. Isn’t you so dep gai? 😍

Thanks for offering to pay for shipping the car. I appreciate it. I just want to make it clear. EM IS MORE IMPORTANT TO ANH THAN MONEY. ALSO EM BRINGS ANH MORE HAPPINESS THAN MONEY. But having money doesn’t cause Anh any negative emotions 😂. Anyhow, I got here early so I’m gonna look through your photos. See you soon. TLG!!

Saturday, March 13, 2021

En-yeah-ment

Beautiful:


To be clear. You were beautiful before the makeup. I’m lucky that Em is more dep than me. Cam on Em thuong Anh. Hope you had a good day today. I hope you have more good days than bad ones. TTQD!!!

Friday, March 12, 2021

90 Day Fiancée (give or take)

Our big day is 3 months away. I know how anxious and excited you are. It's been a lot of work and effort put in to make this happen. I appreciate all that you've done towards that end. I hope that becoming Mrs. Uyen Nguyen (or Do...) doesn't change the love and energy that we have for each other now. That's one of the things that I think about. I know a child will change that dynamic for sure, but in the absence of a child, I pray that we continue to grow on our trajectory together as a couple.


It took me a while to find a picture of us that didn't have bad memories (Em always remembers the bad). Maybe I missed it, but this photo was a good time. That's what I look forward to in our future together. I'm not naive enough to believe it's going to be a smooth ride, but I do hope and believe that we'll take more steps forward than backwards. And what I've always hoped and prayed for is that as long as we're in it together, we're gonna be okay. I love you Em. TTQD!!

Thursday, March 11, 2021

Wild Thursday?

Doesn’t quite have the same ring as Wild Wednesdays, but it’s been quite an interesting day. A lot of self-reflection and highs and lows. I want to thank you for letting me know that I cut you off. I can’t do better if I don’t know better. I’m sorry if I been kinda out of sorts lately. I’m just trying to figure out things. It’s not your fault, so don’t worry.

To make up a little, here’s something to make you smile. Thanks for your patience and understanding as I figure myself out. 

Here’s another one. You probably seen these, but just a reminder. ATEN!!!


Wednesday, March 10, 2021

Vacci-yeahted!!!

Well technically only half, but that’s better than none. I meant to post this picture yesterday, but I wasn’t able to:

Em made me a dish and I made Em a dish. It’s a Uyen-Nguyen situation. Food is a universal way to share/show love. I know Em means well, but it’s okay if the love tastes good too. TTQD!!

Tuesday, March 9, 2021

Almost Missed A Day...Almost

The day started slow, but it ended with a fury. So much so that I didn’t get to pull or shower today. Luckily I didn’t go anywhere so I should be okay. My back is a little sore and now my face is too. I’m glad Em got a laugh out of it.

I ate this today. Em tries to cook for me. It’s one of the ways she shows she cares. She used to try to cook healthy, but it didn’t taste as good so now she tries to make better tasting food. Thanks. TTQD.


Monday, March 8, 2021

Mondays...Yah

Mondays are always good because they’re busy and work flies by. It’s already 8:55PM. Em and I got stuff done today too. Yah.

It’s nice when Em really loves me, but when she is busy or ignores me it hurts. It’s not her fault. She can only feel how she feels at the moment. When it’s good it’s great. When it’s not, it’s horrible. That’s living life at the extremes. 

Today you get 3 paragraphs. I wanted to take a picture of you this morning sleeping pretty, but you moved. Like a sandwich. Hehe. Thanks for your enthusiasm. It’s refreshing. 😘 I’ll see you soon and we can pray, yah. TTQD Em!!!

Sunday, March 7, 2021

Not An Easy Sunday Morning

But it seems to have worked itself out for now. It’s refreshing that we were able to not get to bent out of shape over the things that went wrong today. Instead we were able to keep what we could right. Good job Team Uyen-D!!!

Even in light of the pandemic birthday she can smile I’m sure glad we could find the silver lining today. Also I didn’t think you wanted a picture of your broken garage or my Korean bbq 😂 I’m glad we’re in this together. TTQD!!!

Saturday, March 6, 2021

Taking Care of Uyen’s Business

I had a picture of Em sleeping for blog, but it got deleted...

So instead, here’s a picture of food. Sorry we didn’t take any photos in SF. I meant to ask you at the pier, but forgot. At least we have memories. Glad you had a great day today and that I was a part of it. TTQD!!

P.S. I got 🐥 🐥 so I guess I took care of some business too 😂 

Friday, March 5, 2021

Taking Care of Business

As long as we keep moving forward, we’ll be okay. 


Today was a great day. I’m sorry we couldn’t go to the bay (hey that rhymed). We’re going tomorrow so it’s okay (that too). That’s all I wanted to say. Thank you for spending time with me today. Man, I’m a rhyme-nocerous. Good times. TTQD!!!


Thursday, March 4, 2021

Diamond Is Forever

So is our love (I hope).

Sorry the angle makes your finger look fat...or does it? Anyhow, I just want you to know what I’m glad you resolved your problems with Paul. While I didn’t agree with the methods, I’m about results. TLG!!

Wednesday, March 3, 2021

Conditional Love

Hi Em who loves me more in the morning... Anh loves Em more when she doesn’t criticize how he spends his money. Anh also loves Em more when she treats him fairly. I was just thinking about it this morning. I appreciate your mom thinking about my parents. And I appreciate you wanting to take your mom’s advice. But it’s okay too.

It’s been a while since I complained about being in Em’s top 100. I know that things won’t always be fair and that sometimes. Anh loves Em extra when he feels in the top 100 and when things are more fair. Thanks for all you do. TTQD!!!

Tuesday, March 2, 2021

🙋‍♂️

Hi Em. I hope this message finds you well. I’m just sitting at your house. Waiting for you to come home. I’m sorry I ate a little and snacked a little, but I’ll eat again with you when you get home. Hopefully we’ll have time to do my mask tonight, but it’s okay if we don’t.

Looks like you’re getting overtime today. So that means you should be in a good mood. It’s funny, but money seems to bring us both joy. Anyhow, thanks thuonging me. I appreciate it. ATEN.

Monday, March 1, 2021

On This Day...

In 2019, we were eating at TJ and Joann’s. It’s crazy how much has changed (and not changed) since that time.

They made pizza last week. It looked good. They better invite us next time so we can decline 😂. Good food and good friends make for good times. I’m hungry, but I already ate dinner. See you soon. TLG!!

The Last…

I think I may have written this title before, but today is the last blog post I will write as your boyfriend. But the truth is that this is ...