Thursday, June 3, 2021

Safe Space

Even before the pandemic, there’s been an increase in the conversation about “safe spaces”. Originally, I believe it started about having a place where people could feel safe talking about controversial topics. And I think this blog is kinda like a “safe space”.


Sometimes I don’t feel like working, but I feel obligated to do something productive so I’m gonna finish the entry today. Basically, I want you to know that I’m a safe space for you. I’m going to work really hard to not react emotionally when we talk. What I need you to know is that my response isn’t out of anger, it’s concern/love. Anyhow, ttyl 👋. TTQD!!
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4 comments:

  1. Uyen DJune 4, 2021 at 12:03 AM

    ❤️

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  2. Uyen DJune 4, 2021 at 5:02 AM

    When you said this is wherer you offer to help me sleep, I was thinking, “I wonder if Danh will
    be mad if I don’t go up right now to b him, but I don’t think he would because I’m in the middle of something. He said “sorry” vi text today because I was workin on wedding stuff during my lunch, he wouldn’t be mad at me when I’m busy with the tablecloth right now.”
    Earlier, you said i’d 8 want to blow you, then I should do it first before other things.
    But now i’m in the middle of
    something, then I don’t want to, so me not wanting to do what you want at that moment because i’m in the middle of something not ok by you?. this is a legitimate reason
    Question is: so if I don’t do things at the moment you want to even with a legitimate reason, then your reaction will be ....(please fill in the blank)

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  3. Uyen DJune 4, 2021 at 5:10 AM

    Or do you want me to drop everything I’m doing, do what you want me to do immediately, to keep the peace? I will do it if this will keep the peace between us and I will
    learn to drop everything and go do what you want. Please be honest with your answer.

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  4. Uyen DJune 4, 2021 at 5:12 AM

    Knowing you the past 4 years, I don’t think you’re that kind of person though. But if you are, I will adapt to
    it so we don’t have any more fight or you being mad at me again.

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